Paedophilia is so common in India. Why do I have to raise such issues. I have known so many people whose main aim of life is to make a child girlfriend.
But at some places it is not considered bad even by adults. 22 Year old with 10 Year old.
Infact the more important issue for them is whose boyfriend is better among them. The people allow it if they are poor or the bf is good looking or rich.
When I first noticed or saw it I thought it to be a unique case but it’s not. Women are perfectly ok with under age girls having adults boyfriends.
It is equivalent to child marriage that was common in our country. But that I thought was more due to economic reason.
But now if you hope that the women’s of the village will instantly sense it and do the needful you are going to be very disappointed.
They first will turn it into local politics and compete making it their own sexual pride. Either they don’t care the risk or very well know but allow till it is not a big deal.
At such a place how can you say adult is responsible in anyway. What should they be doing? Just watch and entertainment themselves.
I think they don’t even know that it is bad. If they do then they just protect themselves from it by anyway possible and not really change themselves. I am taking about females.
Paedophilia must be both ways right though adult female and under age male it less frequent. This is for natural reasons but in both cases it is bilateral.
What will you say to that when you have an adult girlfriend but because you are much more mature or old psychologically than her.
This is paedophilia or not. I try to find someone mature, therefore avoiding below 30 and sometimes even 10 -12 years older than me. Being a male that’s sign of maturity I think. Physical attraction is obviously diluted for me but so is emotional or intellectual because I find myself much more elder even with women much older than me.
If this is what we call love then I am better off unmarried for whole life.
I also tried looking it from education angle. It is said to build conscience you need education. Even technical education makes you realize the reality of everything. How hard or how easy anything must be. Or what all things if made not an issue then we cannot possibly have the society and inventions we have now.
Or is it just me who thinks that.
Then the problem is education.
No the problem is not content of education. It is the method. Just mug up everything. Don’t understand. And if boys are good in maths in general for whatever reason they are less a paedophile than females.
I have observed older females are more secretly paedophile. Males are but usually open with whom they think is a friend because a room mate.
Leave study far aside. But why nobody wants to understand anything. Do they realize that they are not even alive if they are not putting effort to understand even nothing
That’s why I think chemically it is quite possible that we create a virus that wipe out most of us who are chemically not fit for evolution. It may leak from Uhan Wuhan lab but we or atleast I obviously know we made it collectively.
If you don’t want to believe me it is your choice. Infact it is not. Believing is opposite of knowing. I don’t want to not know what you are saying.
In Boolean
If thing to be known is “a” let’s say. Then
Not(Not a) is a itself.
So you know but you choose to ignore or rather didn’t choose to not ignore.
Any way understanding mind is more probable to develop conscience. Math Science requires understanding. Actually all discipline of study requires understanding.
But except maths even science can be mugged up and passed.
Only for this reason I think Maths is important for everybody. High school level Math atleast, no matter the discipline it should be made compulsory to pass high school Maths also.
For whatever reason Indian student opting science stream more. I mean Math science and not Bio it is making new generation males less paedophile than females.
Females who chose Maths don’t excel higher in number of girls at least because of this compounding effect. The more the women population are paedophile less they will learn understanding subject.
I think you understand or do I need to explain. I think I need to.
There are are 500 students.
150 chose Maths 350 chose other subject.
And population of girls and boys are 50 50 before and also after selecting branch and in every branch.
So number of boys who took Maths 75.
No who didn’t 175
Same way number of girls who took Maths is 75 and number who didn’t 175.
Those 175 girls are already less understanding and if they don’t choose Maths will be poor in even basic Maths.
Those 75 who took Maths have other 175 as friends so they also don’t do as good as boys in Maths.
But the real reason is girls are already less understanding when they are suppose or considered to be more understanding.
And the reason for that is natural.
Paedophilia if assumed normal which depends on wether we consider ourself humans or animals then a girl is more probable to be paedophile at small age and a male at old age.
It is not hard and fast. A small boy can also be forced to be attracted to big females.
But generally the former one is more probable.
Solution is not- To not let old and young interact. But tell or teach atleast the young why it might be tempted to interact with an older one. And after that tell why it is wrong. Though just telling former will be quite enough.
Children tend to believe their parents I think. They understand or not is not the main issue. The main issue is that if they know they will understand quicker.
A young boy forced to be paedophile like girl generally becomes serial killer. That’s because a young male is naturally less likely to develop paedophilia. So if forced, as an adult he is less likely to be more of a paedophile. He would want to be a child.
On the other hand a young girl if did not understood what their parents told them because they didn’t even told her is more likely to be what at older age ?
If you want examples ? I can give but very unconventional.
Our PM who didn’t understood paedophilia at right age of males which is Adult.
Aaj Tak lead news anchor who didn’t understood paedophilia at right age of females which is young.
Me who didn’t understood paedophilia but it was wrong age as a male.
Trump who didn’t understood paedophilia but at wrong age as a female.
The last one is interesting isn’t it ?
If we are both male and female. A young male should live more with his father not mother. A young female should live more with his mother not father. Not actual but comparative.
In India it is lack of case 1. Not enough fathers. Reason – No Gun culture. Even Fathers are mothers. That’s why no divorse.
In America it is lack of case 2. Not enough mothers. Reason – Gun Culture. Even mother’s are fathers. That’s why high divorse.
Overall if I have to say
1.) Make Maths and competitive Rifle Shooting compulsory for girls.
2.) Make economics and competitive Rifle Shooting compulsory for boys.
Why competitive shooting and economics.
To develop skills of understanding obviously but what kind.
Something that needs to be understood intellectually and something that needs to be understood physically.
But rifle shooting is most applicable for things that require suble physical understanding like economics.
And Maths is most applicable for things that requires subtle intellectual understanding like Rifle shooting.
Maths